Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "This is our definition of hierarchical polyamory. It’s in line with most poly educators. If you have a different definition, please feel free to share . As a decolonizing page we are categorically against hierarchical polyamory. There is no good excuse to practice hierarchy. No one deserves to be disempowered because of a primary’s trauma, ignorance or anything else. It is disrespectful to rank partners. People that say hierarchies are normal because they’re ubiq

Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "What does cheating mean to you as a polyamorist? These are our answers. We agree on most aspects, except for a few. It’s crucial to discuss the definition of cheating in polyamory to prevent misunderstandings and missteps. In polyamorous relationships, just like in monogamous relationships, cheating is primarily defined by the boundaries and agreements set within the relationships. Here’s a general framework for understanding what might constitute cheating in a p